The Father They Chose Not to Be "The Last of Us"

The Father They Chose Not to Be - In a world broken by infection and survival, we know Joel and Tommy as fighters—protectors—and, in many ways, fathers. But behind their hardened faces lies a childhood haunted by violence and fear.
In a powerful new episode of The Last of Us, a ghost from their past emerges.
Tony Dalton, known for his iconic roles in Better Call Saul and Hawkeye, makes a surprise appearance as the man who shaped them the most by hurting them the deepest—their father.
Through a chilling flashback to 1983, we meet a teenage Joel vowing to shield his younger brother from the man they both feared.
Their father, a police officer, wasn’t just strict—he was physically and emotionally abusive. And while he claimed to feel remorse, he never truly changed.
But this isn’t just a story about trauma. It’s a revelation about why Joel and Tommy became the men they are today.
Their father tried to justify his violence by saying he was better than his own dad—but Joel took those words and gave them real meaning.
He didn’t just try to be better—he became better. Not by being perfect, but by choosing love over fear. By protecting, not punishing.
Now a father figure to Ellie, Joel lives every day carrying the weight of his past, trying to ensure she never feels what he once did. His pain fuels his compassion.
His scars remind him never to let the cycle continue.
Tony Dalton’s brief but powerful performance unlocks a new emotional layer in Joel’s journey.
It shows us that The Last of Us isn’t just a story about a fallen world—it’s about broken people trying to heal. It’s about how even the most painful memories can become the foundation for something better.
In the end, Joel and Tommy weren’t just survivors of their father’s cruelty—they became the fathers he never could be.